Living with History: Raising Kids in a National Treasure

 A stack of plates the escaping slaves ate from and then hid in the dirt floor of the basement. The basement was one of the hiding places during the years of the Underground Railroad.

A stack of plates the escaping slaves ate from and then hid in the dirt floor of the basement. The basement was one of the hiding places during the years of the Underground Railroad.

We live with a small zoo of assorted animals, with numbers that fluctuate so much it is hard to get an exact count, in a home that happens to be on the National Register of Historic Places.

Counting pets always causes a debate as to whether the feeder crickets (which are food for other pets, but we house and feed them like pets), the two nests of finch eggs that haven’t hatched yet, as well as the baby canaries that are on their way to being sold, should be included in the count. Thank goodness the dogs don’t have fleas, which would further complicate the answer!

Many people have asked, “Why so many pets?” I honestly don’t know, perhaps it has something to do with my growing up on a little farm in Oklahoma or maybe I just never learned to limit love. Whatever the reason, in addition to the pets, there are four energetic children bouncing around in our historic 1840s home.

When you first have children, the common advice is to pack away all fragiles until they move out. I’ve always wondered how to accomplish that when it’s the house itself that is priceless. Bubble wrap? Everywhere? What it definitely means is trying to teach the children what having a living museum for a home means. It causes some rather interesting discussions concerning how care should be taken since we can’t go to the store and simply replace that which is broken when the basketball suddenly (and by itself, of all miracles!) flies through the air and meets up with history.

The house gained its historic status by being a part of the Underground Railroad. The man who was the railroad conductor here owned the home in the 1850s and was the founder of the town’s first bank (which still existed until a few years ago), general store clerk, newspaper editor, a friend of Abraham Lincoln, general everyman, and do-gooder of our town.

Some would feel that a family actually living in the house is an inappropriate use for a building on the National Register of Historic Places. They are the ones who would open a stiff, cold museum of hushed voices and perfect restorations and spotless fixtures in the house.

We’re not perfect or spotless. We’re noisy and we spill juice and snort milk out our noses if we crack up at the wrong moment. In the mix of our lives is the occasional added commotion of pets that escape. As the gleeful escapee flies, flits, crawls, or hops through the historic rooms, the warning call is raised. Everyone available joins in energetic pursuit with a variety of nets, pots, cups, spoons, and anything else close at hand that can be used to catch the runaway.

Somehow the bustle and chaos of our lives that bounces off the walls seems more in keeping with the house’s history than if it were a museum. It has, after all, been a holder and protector of families for 172 years. My children and their friends playing chase and hide-n-seek through its halls keep alive the spirits of children past, children who played the same games, squealed with the same joy, and caught the ancestors of the lightning bugs my children now catch. On rainy Easters we have the greatest indoor egg hunts, with some eggs not found until months later (sometimes while chasing a runaway pet).

We walk the same floors that so many people before us walked. When we cry, our tears join with the countless oceans of tears the walls must have heard wept. Our laughter melds with the infinite waves of laughter that have lapped at the corners and crevices of this dear old house.

The house has a life, a beat of its own, that blends with ours in such a way that it has become like a member of our family (although, a very old member of the family!). I’m not really sure if the house has blended with us or if we have blended with it.

Someone once tried to make an offer on the house. I was so startled, I didn’t even ask what the offer was. This is home. It is not for sale. In a time and world where homes are only houses, thought of as investments and temporary, few understand my connection to this house and my dedication to its well being.

It often is said that times have changed, that values have been lost, that children know too much too soon. Perhaps that is true, but we lose only what we are willing to give up. We make a choice when nourishing our souls becomes secondary to investments and money making.

Oh, and the exact number of pets? We honestly don’t know, but we always invite visitors to count for themselves!

A corner of our historic home, can you see any escaped pets?

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Welcome to the Col. H. G. Blake House

In 1998, when I met this wonderful house, all I knew was that it was in a beautiful area and it fit perfectly the description of the house I would love to live in, right down to the double set of staircases.

What I had not included in the dream house description was that it would be on the National Register of Historic Places. That was a wonderful bonus that was revealed as the final papers were being signed. I didn’t even know that ordinary people like me could own a National Register site.

Turns out that other potential buyers had walked away from the house when they learned it was on the register. They thought there would be too many rules to living here (more about this in a future post).

The day I walked in the house for the first time, it felt like a hundred souls rushed forward to hug me. Everyone has their own explanation for that, I simply accepted that this was to be the place I would live and that I would fight for its survival.

The longer I have lived here, the more I have learned that fighting for this home’s survival is never ending, from defending it from the developers who wanted it so they could bulldoze the house and use this prime piece of real estate for commercial purposes to those who think that smashing beer mugs on the sidewalk is entertainment.

This site is dedicated to the battles as well as to the wonderful stories that happen from living in the arms of history, to the sharing of the important history this amazing home has been a part of, to the preservation of one of the last National Register of Historic Places sites that is still in private hands, with just a touch of the stories that could be the result of spirits who may have remained.

Little did I realize how much this one move in life would lead to, the wonderful people who would walk through the doors, the amount of history hidden throughout the property and house, and how this property, which has always been known to house strong, independent souls would help me find mine.

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